Baby psychology and parent psychology are interconnected
We have much to learn about baby psychology and positive parenting. What typically goes on subconsciously and psychologically between babies and their parents is extremely influential and often negative and shocking.
Trauma in the Womb
Most babies spend much of their time before birth in parent-related emotional trauma. The trauma is parent-related and parents are consciously unaware of the fact that their negative psychological energies are hurting their unborn babies. Positive parenting and positive parent psychology go hand-in-hand.
Parents, and how they choose to think, feel, and deal with their negative thoughts and feelings greatly affect the quality of how an unborn baby and infant feels and acts on a daily basis. A mother or father's subconscious state is most basic, real, and, unfortunately, also most negative. Unborn babies and infants primarily relate and strongly react to their parents' negative subconscious intentions, attitudes, thoughts, and feelings.
Understanding the Subconscious
Every selfish person has unnaturally "split" him or her self psychologically. We function from two levels of awareness, intention, choice, thought, feeling, action, and reaction. We function consciously and subconsciously simultaneously, usually in very different ways. We "split" in order to hide our selfish and unloving intentions, feelings, and actions from others and our own conscious selves.
A person's subconscious intention and choice override any conscious intention or choice. That is revealed when a person consciously strives to change or accomplish something, yet, continuously relapses into old ways, or fails to achieve conscious objectives. When selfish (as we all are choosing to be to varying degrees) our subconscious is the place from which we make our most negative and destructive choices. The subconscious is also the truest indicator of a person's intentions, choices, attitudes, thoughts, and feelings.
Parent psychology-baby psychology
The quality of parent psychology has an enormous influence on baby psychology and well-being. Embryos, fetuses, and infants are extremely sensitive, aware, and vulnerable to negative psychological energies. They are constantly being impacted on and pressured by their parents' negative psychological energies, i.e. the energies of their parents' selfish intentions, attitudes, choices, thoughts, feelings, and reactions.
Unborn babies are mentally and emotionally aware humans, capable of understanding, reacting, and communicating in primitive and natural ways. By six months in the womb, scientists have confirmed that fetuses are as psychologically sophisticated as one-year old infants.
The most important communications unborn babies and infants have with their parents take place subconsciously--their parents are usually consciously not aware of what is happening while these psychological exchanges are occurring.
Negative agreements - Personal gods
Unborn babies enter into significant and far-reaching negative agreements with their parents who have selfish expectations and make selfish demands on them. Most unborn babies end up negatively agreeing with their parents expectations and demands out of fear or selfish desire. In that way, they turn their parents into "personal gods." Those selfish deals are wrong, they lead a child to act and react in destructive ways, rather than be as they know is the right way for them to be.
Negative energies
Inwardly and outwardly, babies who acquiesce to selfish parents end up feeling a variety of negative feelings. They become afraid, insecure, angry, frustrated, resentful, rebellious, and guilty. The perils caused by parental negative psychological energies are as serious to the well-being of unborn babies and infants as are physical perils such as a mother's poor diet, lack of proper exercise, substance abuse, or environmental perils such as chemicals and pollution.
Trauma in the womb
Unborn babies and infants usually become caught up in the selfish power struggles and suppressed conflicts that rage between their selfish parents. Many babies are not wanted from the start, and at least one parent feels resentful and competitive toward them.
Our sensitive, perceptive, and vulnerable babies are frequently experiencing emotional pain. They feel threatened and alone most of the time. They are mentally, emotionally, and physically ravaged by caustic selfish subconscious parental psychological energies.
An extremely selfish parent creates a harsh psychological environment that sets a baby up for distress and selfish reactions. Those reactions become destructive agreements and behavior patterns that will plague them throughout their lives. When babies, themselves, grow to become parents, if not properly dealt with, those destructive selfish behavior patterns and selfish reactions will hurt their own children. Round and round will go the cycles of family abuse and pain. []